Aargh.

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Cake day: March 16th, 2026

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  • Easy and insulting way of finding out how important you are to your friends is to tell them on Whatsapp “I’m done with being forced to use this spyware app, I’m moving to Signal, you can contact me there.” Then maybe reminding them a week later about this, then uninstall Whatsapp.

    Either they think you are important enough that they go through the awful trouble of spending 90 seconds of their lives installing the Signal app, or they think thats too much trouble to keep in contact with you.

    I did that, found out that my friends didn’t really care too much about me lol. A couple did and thats nice. You don’t need 735 friends anyway. Or at least I dont.


  • Good point. I did assume a western culture background.

    I don’t know what you are trying to imply with the “sex object” comment, but personally I have never had sex with a “random” person, nor have I thought about my sex partners as sex objects. They have been people I cared a lot about and wanted to connect on a deep level. Some people do think of others as objects to have sex with, but I think thats a different conversation from what is being discussed here.


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    14 hours ago

    Yes, not having sex before marriage is a horrible idea.

    Sex is a big part of a relationship. If its bad, it can break the relationship, lead to cheating etc. Better to find out before making things legally binding and having to deal with the mess afterwards with extra complications.

    Edit: not saying anyone should have sex on the first date. Get to know each others, get to trust each others. Talk about things. Then have sex only when you are comfortable with the other person and the idea of having sex with them.


  • Its the land of contradictions. They say they defend democracy, while having basically a oligarchy. They say god bless this and that, they preach christian virtues, while ignoring the vast majority of the “good” book. Their police slogan is to protect and to serve, but omit the “owning class and property” from that slogan. The famous southern hospitality is just a facade and at best limited to kind words and apple pies. They say they have freedom, while complaining about not being able to protest and protect their freedoms because they cant afford it.

    Its such a weird place. Strong stockholm syndrome vibes. Lots of brainwashing.

    And for any Americans reading this, I have many American friends who I speak to daily and they are wonderful people stuck in a bad place and at a horrible time. They are not ignorant or stupid. I know you are good people, individually. Of course there is exceptions. I’m not saying these things out of hatred or whatever.



  • Like I use GrapheneOS but the lead dev crashes out on Xhitter constantly and attacks rival privacy projects.

    Hahah, I subscribed to them on Mastodon, but a few days ago I unsubscribed because he had a weird, multi-post rant against Jolla. I’m not saying he was wrong but it could have been a few sentences long and got the message through. But instead he wrote as if Jolla was a russian demon trying to take over the world. It was rather silly and mildly funny to see but I still don’t need that sort of negativity in my feed lol