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Cake day: November 17th, 2024

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  • First, you’re not alone. Second, it’s almost three years out from my Dad’s passing - the dreams are rare now, but still there. A month is no time at all to process. When you get past the probate (if you need to), and close the estate, that’s when you stop just endlessly grieving and start healing and moving forward.

    My suggestion? Fight the depression and other stuff holding you back. Form new memories, physical and social ones. Go hiking on new trails. Join a sport. Join an in-person RPG group. Do new things. Meet new people.

    By giving your brain more new stuff to deal with, you’ll have less time to dream about her.