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Cake day: June 13th, 2025

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  • It doesn’t hurt to educate yourself. There are great instruction videos which help you with techniques. Like how to find the g-spot (and clitoris as many can’t even find that) and how to do cunnilingus and fingering. But most importantly how to get your partner in the mood, making her all riled up and explode. Use the entire body, find the sensitive spots, play with them, read your partner, don’t just focus on fucking and cumming.

    Nina Hartley has many good videos for example. Don’t use porn as a guide, the focus with porn in general is right angles for the viewers, not show you how it’s done properly.

    I’ve had nothing but compliments from my partners. My current partner (who had many partners before me) told me I gave her first double orgasm and she never comes as hard (by far) as with me. Also knowing what you’re doing makes you more confident and in case you’re poly, your partner is a great business card for other women.

    Same goes for women. Knowing how to rouse up your partner by finding all the sensitive parts on your partner’s body and how to do a proper blow job is key to success.

    Even basic things like kissing techniques and some massaging techniques can already improve your overall performance and improve your ratings.

    And don’t forget to communicate with your partner. They are the best guide to their body and what works and what doesn’t. And you for yours.

    But first and foremost: consent is key! Respect each other’s boundaries!

    For me a whole world opened up when I learned about techniques and how to experiment with kinks. My partners also really appreciate talking about it openly, without judgements.

    Enjoy! Be better!





  • There were. There aren’t anymore

    Example: Jordan Peterson.

    There are many others.

    Don’t underestimate your enemy my friend. Just because the ones in the foreground are low IQ screaming idiots doesn’t mean the quiet ones behind the curtains are low IQ too.

    It’s not about intellect per se. It’s about empathy. Take a sociopath for example. They can be highly intellectual but their goal will justify any means because they lack any form of it.

    I’m not saying intellect has nothing to do with the rise of fascism, because fascists are very good at manipulating low IQ people with disinformation. These low IQ people, the heard, won’t see the harm they do because that would drive their support away so it’s all being hidden and twisted.

    But the core of the rise of fascism is definitely planned by intellectual people and you should not underestimate that.

    Don’t just look at the skinheads on the street. Look at the people funding fascist tyrants.

    Again, not a distinction im making or care about. This is not meaningful to me Who are you arguing with? Is this just action for the sake of action on your part?

    We were talking about dehumanizing people, weren’t we?



  • Also, not sure trump has said that about trans people. Think he’s saving it for the midterms. You’re just saying crap.

    Removing DEI, stripping trans service people of their rights and benefits, denying trans people their identity… Yeah, sure, I’m just talking crap.

    I can explain what i mean when i use words and actually consider stuff intellectually, rather than relying on shallow understandings and gut emotional reactions that barely rise past the level of aesthetics and i valorize and absolutely never explore or apply nuance to. My conclusions flow from my observations rather than the other way around. I tend to revel in rather than abhor complexity. Hey…

    There are fascist intellectuals too. Remember Oppenheimer for example? There were many nazi scientists in nazi Germany. Being a fascist doesn’t automatically mean being dumb or ignorant. It means having a lack of compassion as they don’t care about causing harm to others and they they believe there’s a rank in people, in which they are better than others. Ubermensch and untermensch. They believe some people are more human than others and deserve more rights. Dehumanizing groups of people is usually done to justify crimes against humanity. Murder, torture (like forced medical experimentation like Mengele did), slavery, re-education, sterilization, extermination, etc.

    No matter how evil, fucked up, imbicile, hateful or corrupt someone may be, they are still human and should be treated as such. Even if they don’t treat others like that. Because classifying someone or a group as less human is fascism.

    I am better than those bad people. I’m a better person. I’m not more human than them.

    Look at the world’s history, or what’s happening right now. Humans are fucking evil and fucked up. Some are good, some are bad, but we’re all still human.




  • I like Homelander because he’s so fucked up, so sick and twisted, such a well written roll and perfectly performed. But I like dystopian worlds, as entertainment. I like Gaspar Noé movies. But I can’t say Homelander is a good guy, no. Just pure evil.

    But it’s the same with Darth Vader. Who would think he’s a good guy? You can like him for being cool and evil, but saying he’s the good guy is the same as saying Homelander is a good guy, isn’t it?





  • Scifi and fantasy also try to mirror the real world. In star wars, the whole story about the empire and the rebellion is basically the story of any great Empire in history. It becomes too big, crooked people take over, it becomes corrupt, it becomes too restricted, too evil to keep power, rebels will fight against oppression and the empire will fall. With a new government filling the vacume, and the whole story starts over again. Heroes become villains. Good guys become bad. They all have their reasons, they all have twisted justifications for their actions. Whatever filter is used, it’s mirroring society. Whether it’s space scifi, fantasy or super heroes.





  • read about nazi germany it will be too late

    Dude, my entire family was in the resistance. My great grandfather hid jews on his farm, was captured, tortured and died in a concentration camp. My family smuggled crashed British pilots back to England and liquidated traitors (family in my mother’s side) and blew up train tracks and communication lines (family on my father’s side). When my grandfather died, we found a huge walk-in closet filled with gas masks, emergency food, machine guns and ammo, a chest filled with hand grenades. In The Netherlands. I’ve had a lot of history lessons in school. Plain history, political history, economic history. I know a lot about nazis, how they come to power, how they work.

    I see what’s happening right now. The lack of democratic and media resistance right now leads to them gaining power, which will lead us having to escalate to more violent and unlawful measures. I don’t want it to come like that, that’s why I’m politically fighting the far right in my country (and fighting fake news) and even though they have taken too much power in my eyes, they can’t just do whatever the fuck they want.

    The US, however, is a failed state and the democrats were way to passive (and also too right wing themselves). So there’s no hope. Violence may be the only option. But just don’t dehumanize your enemy, don’t treat others how you don’t want to be treated yourself.