I never said you should breach your boundaries. But, if your partner wants chocolate cake and you don’t, but it isn’t much of a hassle then you can make your partner some chocolate cake. It’s just going out of your way to do something for someone else.

He still has his bodily autonomy and is doing things fully consenting. It’s just a small sacrifice, doesn’t mean it isn’t consenting. Besides sex, you should make sacrifices in a relationship, within certain boundaries of course.

Excuse my young unmarried self, but I use the reason “I don’t feel like it” to not do all sorts of things. Why would sex with my partner be any different?

According to a random Quora user that I trust with my life, you can eat small amounts of candle wax! Although, even if I were told it’s poisonous I’d still probably lick a candle.