• Phoenixz@lemmy.ca
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    9 days ago

    I had a relationship with a girl 13 years younger. I didn’t find her, she found me. We had 6 years together when I broke up, she begged me not to leave. While we were together we were completely happy, no abuse, and you know, she was an adult who is allowed to make her own fucking decisions without Karen’s like you judging her for what SHE wants

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      9 days ago

      You were the older and more mature (actually, maybe not) person. You could have told her no and you ended up dumping her anyways. You have now been correctly judged.

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        9 days ago

        Are you a right wing or left wing extremist, I honestly can’t see.

        Seriously, you could be a Christian extremist or you could be one of those wannabe warriors for political correctness, it’s the same picture

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          9 days ago

          Are you a complete shit manosphere asshole or just a lying edgelord, I honestly know the answer.

          Seriously, you could be be a woman hater or you could just be one of those loser misogynists. I have no fucking clue because all these pictures look the same to me.

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            3 hours ago

            I know, I am an awful person. I want adults to be free to choose their own path in life, even if that is a path that I (or you) personally would not have chosen.

            Are you also against gays or people being trans? Serious question.

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              I am not against extreme age gaps by law or anything. I just judge the fuck out of them because, as I have stated, they are not generally healthy relationships. Something you apparently discovered yourself.

              I would not choose it for my life and I would council people against it, which I have done many times.

              One of the things I love about this new generation of women is they are less likely to put up with male harassment. I just saw a thirty year old man approach a group of young teens in the mall. The girls immediately shut him down and said he was creepy for talking with them.

              Men in the US have been abusing and using women for a long time now. Using unhealthy power imbalances like age and money to manipulate women. Having four daughters, I am acutely aware of this.

              Your story was rather flippant exposing your disgust and blame of women. You have some internalized misogyny going on there hence why I called you out.

              I will have you know that I marched on the capital of Washington State and secured the right for gay marriage. Have you talked to your representatives personally about your feelings and lobbied them to give rights to marginalized people.

              I am surprised you commented from so long ago. Is everything ok?