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  • Most of the internet, nowadays, is encrypted on transmission.

    Some things are end-to-end encrypted, some things are only encrypted for transmission, and rarely (nowadays) things are not encrypted at all.

    Emails are encrypted for transmission.

    That means, your email is readable on your computer, on your email server, on their email server and on their computer. Your email is not readable by your router, their router, your ISP, their ISP, or anyone operating a machine over which the transmission happens.

    There are end-to-end encryption for email but you would know if you would use it.





  • As a man who currently plans to marry a woman that chooses to dress very modestly and doesn’t like tattoos, that woman looks great and beauty comes in many forms. Don’t be a fool and enjoy all beauty. The tree’s, the human’s, the music’s. Life is better if you allow yourself to enjoy “things” for their kind of beauty and not complain about the lack of some other kind.


  • Your implications dismissed it. You talked about how most abortion being done by choice, because you wanted to make the point that a man should have a choice too, ignoring the fact that a cis man when raped, can’t and will not be impregnated and will not experience the trauma of such a pregnancy. There is an imbalance in the comparison. Of course, it doesn’t end with rape but also simply the consequences of being pregnant, e.g. possibly depression. By pointing at the choice and demanding the same ability to choose, you equate both. They are not the same and you dismiss all the differences.

    I am very certain being pregnant by your rapist and having to carry the child to terms would be increasing the trauma of the rape and aborting the child would consequently reduce the trauma. I mean either way you would have trauma but I am fairly certain it is reducing.

    I am telling you to stop comparing to vastly different situations. That your comparison is bad because of it.

    “If this was about women losing something that men aren’t already without, they might have the foundation of a point. But it’s still a fact that women haven’t really given a shit about advocating for giving men the equivalent rights, throughout the decades that they had them nationwide.”… “women haven’t really given a shit about advocating for giving men the equivalent rights”… jup… the focus of women’s lack of “giving a shit” surely doesn’t frame women in any way negatively… yeah… get real.


  • The normal changes that happen in pregnancy are not to ignore. And what about pregnancy through e.g. rape? Do we dismiss the mental harm it would cause to have a daily reminder that someone did that to you?

    Stop comparing.

    Just say, “i think there should be an opt-out option for men” and move on. You can’t compare pregnancy and it’s implications with simply parenthood, but you don’t need to. Just argue for what you want without punch down. Women are not your enemy. You can have more rights and they can have more rights.




  • I would agree and disagree.

    You are right but I think “ignoring” “men’s issues” harms the feministic cause and consequently the “dying of miscarriage” problem. As sad as it is PR is sometimes very important and e.g. the lie in the post doesn’t help the PR and a lot of young men don’t feel supported but attacked by the current framing of feminism.


  • Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.detoPolitical Memes@lemmy.worldWomen's rights vary
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    I am also very supportive of women’s rights but lying is not helpful.

    Honestly the point that it tries to make is not the point that it makes either. It could be understood as “let’s ban abortion everywhere”, and I don’t think that is the point that it tries to make.

    I am in favor of bodily autonomy and I don’t care what the law currently is anywhere, it should be a given.