

It’s…complicated. On its face I don’t have a problem discussing my feelings. I’m a living breathing human being and life hits all kinds of different ways.
I have learned that I can’t just tell any old person what I’m feeling or going through. And that the things I tell people.can and will be used against me. And no. Not just by women. Any person with a sufficient amount of cleverness and a busted moral compass can use what you say against you.

Imagine if you will, that prior to cooking someone hand scrubbed all the pots/pans that were going to use. But they didn’t rinse them properly so there was still soap residue all over them. And then they cooked with them.